Perhaps it wasn’t all that Hard[1]

I haven’t, though I should have.  I should have put her behind me, but I haven’t, at least not totally, at least not yet.

It’s the right thing to do: for both of us, for far too many reasons, but, to be honest, I can’t say that I’ve done it.  I can’t really explain why.

I think she has, thank goodness.  At least one of us had the wisdom and the will power to do it.

Or, perhaps it wasn’t all that hard for her.